Everyday, I come across ordinary things, that translate into something dirty in my mind. It’s weird, but when you cam, ah, who am I kidding, even before camming, I had a shamefully filthy mind. And that’s a terrible thing to waste, isn’t it? I’m so glad I’ve found so many like minded people that are open to that wild side. To losing their inhibitions every single damn day. I would love a disclaimer to play at the bottom of my chat room: Please leave your inhibitions at the door. I feel that way about life in general. There is something so free about that.

As I look around my room, post cam session, all I can do is giggle. Sometimes, it looks like a war zone. Lingerie scattered here and there. Bottles of oil. A cam girl war zone! haha! So, here are a few signs that you just MIGHT be a camgirl. Or if you recognize any of them, that you spend a lot of time with a cam girl…

1/ You have oily ass prints on your walls, headboard, floor.

2/ You have oily hand prints on your walls, headboard, floor, and sometimes ceiling.

3/ You buy a shirt dependent on its rippability. (I made up that word, but it works)

4/ You’ve stepped in puddles of… wait, what was that???

5/ You buy a shirt soley because you think it would look hot coated in oil.

6/ Your dildo is stained with lipstick marks.

7/ You have killed several toys from over-use.

8/ You are CONSTANTLY washing your duvet cover…

9/ You have an inordinate amount of nude/semi nude selfles on your phone/laptop

10/ People talk about what is a weird fetish to them, and you’re thinking, ‘That’s NOTHING!’, thinking of the things you saw earlier today.

11/ You have duct tape residue on many pieces of furniture.

12/ You see virtually any piece of furniture as a possible set for lurid acts!

13/ You have an Amazon wish list and it’s filled with only sex toys and tiny outfits.

14/ You have dozens of Y strings. Yep, only strippers and cam girls (and cam girl enthusiasts) even know what those are…

15/ When you get so many tribute pics, you start to wonder whether Apple created screen protectors to cum proof their devices.

16/ When you get so many dick pics, you start to grade them on originality and composition.

This is probably the third such list I’ve made. I keep noticing different things, thinking, oh god, only my CWH friends would appreciate this! We hear songs and immediately you think of THAT time. Or you’re out and you see a pretty chair, and you think, hmm, I could USE that… Yep, this is what our minds do on a daily basis. Dirty, dirty, dirty… I bet the creator of duct tape never dreamed of the things WE use it for! >:D

I’ll be on tomorrow morning (Friday), and then I’ll see you all again on Monday!

Have a great weekend guys!

Mwah!

Alex

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Don’t you just love fall? I do! It’s such a visually perfect time of year. Like art in motion, as it changes so much everyday. It would definitely be something I’d miss if I lived somewhere that didn’t offer all four seasons.

And with fall, comes Thanksgiving. Honestly, I don’t need a holiday to give thanks. I do that each and every day. Truly I do. I mean, I have a lot to be thankful for. We all do, don’t we.

Just last night, I was at the first of two Thanksgiving dinners, and I looked around and thought, it wouldn’t matter where I was, as long as this group of people was around me. Having amazing people in your life is absolutely one of the biggest blessings one could ever hope for.

Aside from that, Thanksgiving is a day of celebration for me. This might sound odd, but it’s the day my father passed away. So, why celebrate? Well, quite simply, because he is free. He suffered the last few years with Alzheimers. People say, oh they don’t know what’s happening to them, it’s worse for the family. All I can say is, true, it’s no picnic for us, but what THEY go through is a million times worse. He didn’t deserve that kind of ending, you know? And so, I was grateful that Thanksgiving. I felt not a relief for me, but for him. And so this day is more about that for me, than anything else.

That said, I am thankful for all of the wonderful people I’ve become close with on CWH. Seriously. Thank-you for being so special. And I don’t mean wearing a helmet, riding a short bus special, but truly, you warm my heart and make me tingle. You are beyond thoughtful and caring. Beyond sweet. You might tell me that I make YOU smile, well, you make me smile too. And, uh, some other stuff…

Thanks so much to Hugo – a new fan of the site – for the super generous gift this week, and to Davemlb for the naughty one! And to DaveC, for the really thoughtful one! You guys spoil me soooo much! Mwwwwah!

Okay, time to work out before yet another big dinner tonight. You know, I’ve been going crazy on my booty workouts lately and I have to say, it has paid off BIG time. In the spring, I let it go, because I was so busy with a renovation and being sick and man, my booty was not the same. It was sad… Poor booty – picture it crying? I totally am. But now, it’s back to super booty. Perky and round. It literally takes me only a few weeks to get it to this point, so I’m not sure why I even neglected it last spring. It’s funny how easy it is to be lazy. But seriously, I get up in the morning, go straight to the gym, hammer out a workout in an hour to an hour and a half and the perfect booty is restored. It’s not a lot of effort. Just habit. So, that said, I’d better go smash that out!

Have a great day guys and gals! And a special Happy Thanksgiving shootout to all of my Canadian friends!

xxx
Alex

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Hidy ho guys and dolls! It’s Mchat time AND happens to be almost Halloween, so I’ll be hauling out those sexy little costumes.

Tomorrow’s theme is: Gentleman’s Choice

Guys, this is your chance to get to choose what I put on. Who decides will be earned via trivia! You all know I’m a Harry Potter nerd, so we are doing to HP trivia babies! First to type the correct answer wins. I know there are always people that type the same thing at almost the same time, BUT, only the first name listed will get the honour of deciding what goes on (and off) next!

We’re also going to design a naughty t-shirt. We’ll be doing a lightning round trivia portion and whomever gets the most answers correct in the time given, gets their name on my shirt! Plus you guys can help me cut it JUUUUST right!

I may also do a panty giveaway to the highest tipper of the day. We’ll see if you guys are being good boys! >:D Who wants to get in my drawers?

See you all tomorrow at 4pm ET! Can’t wait to see you! xx

Alex

PS – All Mchats are FREE for CWH members, and $5 for non-members! Talk about a deal!

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One of the virtues that great lord has bestowed upon me is the ability to dirty talk. I’m not talking little utterances, but out and out filth. You know, the stuff your dreams are made of…

I have made grown men blush with the things that escape these pretty lips. I think part of my appeal is that I’m fairly innocent looking, and I’m intelligent, and so they never see it coming… And it’s true. I am the girl you want to bring home to your parents, but then, when I get you alone, and the clothes start falling to the floor, you’d better be prepared for what’s next!

I think society is far too repressed when it comes to talking dirty. Some people get up in arms over the word, slut, or whore, when in fact, these can be verrrrrry erotic when used in the right way, at the right time.

If I had to explain to someone who is hesitant, how to start, I’d simply say, describe what’s going on in your head. Let out those inner desires. It can start even without expletives. A simple, “I want to find out how you feel in my mouth”, or “You taste like a mix of heaven and sex on my tongue”, can get things rolling. I always try and articulate the things I’m feeling or seeing, or want to do. I have literally had someone MUTE me during a show because he said it was getting him there too quick! I consider muting the ultimate compliment now! haha! You’d better believe that I gave it to him twice as hard when that sound came back on… >:D

And when the expletives combine with those salacious thoughts, it’s game over.

And guys, it works for us too! When you whisper in our ear how you want to use that little fuck-hole like it’s meant to be used, it drives us WILD! (see, expletives – hot, right? ) Combine that with a tug on my hair, or maybe a firm grasp of my wrists and I am literally yours.

So come on, let’s get dirrrrrrrrty!

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I’ll be online next week, Monday through Friday, lovers! Have a great weekend!

xx
Alex

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Fall often is for me, a time of nostalgia, a time of reflection, if you will. I’m hyper alert of the almost magical changes that happen right before my eyes. So much beauty. Beauty, that we often take for granted. I mean, we have all of this before us, and how many of us take a minute to slow down, to just take in all of this? Things that money can’t buy. Something that is just bestowed upon us like a wonderful gift. And it made me think, there is so much that can fall within this category. And these thoughts came through to me in verse, as they so often do. Isn’t it a lovely outlet to just sit back and put your thoughts to paper every now and again? I find it so relaxing and wrote a series of poems last weekend. I thought I’d share one with you as it pertains to the subject of this blog. Hope you enjoy just a little piece of what goes on inside my head.

Beauty

Beauty is inside us,
It beguiles us,
It defies us.

Beauty can confound you,
As it surrounds you,
So much abound you.

Beauty can be intangible,
Indefinable,
Undeniable

And Beauty can be obvious,
Even to those that are oblivious,
Just open your eyes and look deep within,
I see it everywhere, I can’t even begin.

Be it a look, a word, or touch,
These little things can mean so much.

True beauty to me,
Isn’t something you can see.
It’s more something you feel,
Like words that can heal.

It’s a sun setting after a long, hot day,
It’s the comforting words I’ve heard you say.

It’s the lightening streaking through the sky,
It’s looking someone in the eye.

It’s the fall leaves turning red and brown,
It’s the shining streetlights in my downtown.

It’s the comfort of a warm embrace,
It’s like seeing that old familiar face.

It’s hearing the laughter of a friend,
Or helping their broken heart to mend.

It’s feeling the grass between your toes,
It’s those sweet, shared moments that nobody knows.

And so you see,
Beauty is to me,
Something that will always be.

Never a question in my mind,
As to the beauty we can find.
If we just open ourselves to see,
All of this beauty that can be.

Have an amazing weekend all! Hope you get more treats than tricks… Wait, I guess tricks are dirty, right? Maybe I want you to get tricks? Oh hell, I hope you have fun! I’m handing out candy tomorrow night with my little pup, and I’m dressing her as…. (drum roll please) a MINION! She looks adorable, but she totally hates her costume. Doesn’t she know it’s tradition?? Well, her tradition is going mental around the house, trying to find her way out of said costume. She literally knocks her head gear off in less than a minute! I don’t know why I put her through this. Oh yes I do! Because she looks SO cute!! lol! Happy Halloween, guys!

Mwwwah!

Alex

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Happy Monday all! I hope you guys had a great weekend.

First off, I want to thank all of you who attended my Mchat yesterday. Honestly, that hour goes soooo quickly and I have just the best time hanging with all of you and getting to know you all a little better. Although, that said, you boys DID get awfully quiet during a few points… haha!

So, here we go with my Questions Of The Week. I get some really interesting questions posed to me via social media and thought I’d share a few of them with you. Don’t be shy! If you have any questions, cam-related or not, just ask!

1/ You have a LOT of toys. Do you have more toys or shoes?

Oh gosh. Hmm… I DO have a lot of toys. Umm, it’s pretty close, to be honest. I’d have to count them to actually see. I’ll maybe go with shoes, by just a little? I do have loads and loads of shoes. But then again, I did just get a bunch of new toys, so ah! I don’t know!

2/ What is your favourite toy?

For personal use? I have this new vibe that beats the hell out of the Hitachi. I never thought I’d utter those words. It’s less loud, less obtrusive, and WAY more powerful. But I have different toys for different reasons. Sometimes, actually many times, I like to combine them. The MOST powerful O’s occur when I use this new vibe along with my Lelo. It’s uh, intense! Leg-shakingly intense. The Hitachi seems so mild now, lol!

For cam shows? Well, I got this new D that is SO hot to do shows with. Have you ever wanted to coat my pretty face with a big load of…. ?

3/ What is the longest show you’ve ever done?

Hmm, I think it was six hours straight. And it was FUUUUUN!!!! I really don’t tire out too easily. Adversely, the more we go, the more I CAN go… Rawrrrr!

4/ How much should I add for a show?

Well, that all depends on you. I mean, there are guys that will do $40, but that goes so quick and I mean, good lord, we’re a LOT of fun here on CWH, so you’ll probably want a little more time than that. I’d say the mean average would be about $100 for a newbie. The majority do more, but there is no right or wrong. Just what’s right for you!

5/ Do you discount your rate?

Rarely. And the reason being this, you get what you pay for, you know? Plus, most girls raise their rates after being selected CGOTY, and you know what? I didn’t. I’d rather give you a more reasonable rate all the time, rather than putting my rate on ‘sale’ here and there. Then everyone benefits.

6/ I see you posting about an MChat. What is that?

At CamWithHer, when you get a membership with us, you get all sorts of benefits, such as exclusive forum access into models’ private forums and picture sections, Mchat admittance, and archive viewing, as well as member exclusive photos and videos. And Mchat is a member chat. It’s an hour long with various, popular CWH models, and it costs nothing for members. You can see as many as you like in a month! Great opportunity to see what the girls have to offer, even though they tend to be ‘cleaner’ than our private and VIP chats. Non-members, don’t fret! You can now buy into Member Chats on the day of the mchat for only $5.00! How cheap is that? You get to hang with the models and chit chat with other members too. Loads of fun (pun intended)!

7/ You’re so interactive on Twitter! Is that what you’re like on CWH?

Hell yeah! Absolutely! What you see is what you get! I’m a very outgoing, very verbal girl! I love meeting you all!

8/ Do you show your face in shows?

Oh my goodness yes! I know I don’t much on Twitter, and the reason being, well, people steal our pictures and make fake profiles. Sounds seedy right? Well, then, add to it that they try and sell people fake shows and steal your money, using our likenesses. Not cool. So, I keep them to a minimum. You can see exactly what I look like in our CWH clips section, and in our model forum; not to mention, in a private or VIP! Sure my body is pretty damn good, but wait till you see those blue eyes looking back at you. Those full lips parting and whispering the filthiest thoughts that permeate my brain, just…for..you!

9/ You don’t seem to be online for long, and when you do, you’re often booked up.

I guess that’s true. I cam here and there, but all guys know they can always shoot me a private message via SNR, or a quick tweet and I’ll try and accommodate you. I so appreciate the patience that the guys show, waiting for me! And trust me, I ALWAYS make it worth your wait… >:D

10/ Do you do dom shows?

Yeah, for sure. I do some dom, some submissive. I have loads and loads of costumes, and some of the most gorgeous lingerie you’ve ever seen. If you want me to boss you the fuck around, I’m not afraid to take charge and lead you into a spiral of wanting and craving. Just don’t say I didn’t warn you!

11/ What is your favourite thing to wear camming?

Oh, wow. That really depends on my mood! I change SO much during a day of camming. I would say, though, that I prefer beautiful, luxurious looking lingerie. I’m all about the details of my lingerie. I love satin, lace. I’m a big fan of garters and stockings, and how they frame my backside, and showcase those superrrr long legs. But tomorrow, I’m starting out in a really sporty look! A tiny y string, with booty shorts on top, cute little Nike sneaks, and a hot little sports bra that makes my boobs look amazing. And sometimes, I end up in these odd, but ridiculously hot outfits. Things YOU guys pick out, that I would never have thought of on my own. I tell you, men have fabulous taste when it comes to women!

So, that said, I’ll be online all day Tuesday (morning and afternoon), and same goes for Thursday. I’ll be away for the weekend, as I’m going to visit my brother. Yay me! But, don’t fret, I’ll be back on Monday, loves! And god knows, after a weekend with family, this girl is raring to go!

Have a wonderful week, guys!

Mwah!

Alex

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Threeways, what comes to mind when you hear that word? Pretty prurient thoughts, right? Well, I totally agree. As someone who has had their share of three ways, four ways, what have you, I can tell you first hand that they ARE amazing. BUT, (yes, there is a but, and not the curvy kind you see on our site – haha) if you’re a couple heading down this road of sexual exploration, you need to have a discussion. I mean it. It sounds funny, because you maybe want it to be spontaneous, and it still can be. But you need to maybe discuss limits, or else this experience isn’t going to be what you expect or hope it to be. The guy might be too timid, thinking, oh God, she’s going to kill me if I do this to the other girl. Or she might think, what is he comfortable with? Or worse, you just go ahead and do shit and ruin each other’s trust forever. So if you establish some guidelines, then you’ll be all set when it DOES happen, to just go with the moment, you know?

My very first foray into this world was an amazing experience. I lept head-first into it, quite literally – haha! But we had discussed it before-hand, so I knew things like, he’d be okay with me swallowing. He was okay with penetration, just not anally. I knew he wouldn’t allow things to get rough with the other male in the room. Things like that. Because what if I went ahead and did stuff he wasn’t cool with? Then that would loom over us for all eternity. Instead, I knew the boundaries and just went with it and enjoyed every second. Same with him. That said, I really didn’t have any hard limits for him. lol! And I meant it. For me, it’s one of those situations whereby if you’re turned on, you can bet your sweet ass I’ll be turned on. Did it bother me to see my partner being pleasured by another woman? Hell no. Did it get to me when I heard him moaning in ecstasy? Nope. Adversely, I LOVED it. And mainly because I loved him. And trusted him. And KNEW in my heart that while yes, he’s having sex with someone else, it’s not the act of making love. It’s sex for just sex – which can be super HOT, in my opinion. Sharing your partner. Sharing yourself. Now, it’s not something we did every weekend, we weren’t that filthy (although we WERE pretty naughty together). But we did it a few times, and it seemed progressively more erotic each time we played with other individuals.

And talking about your experience together afterwards, in the bedroom, is off the charts hot. You guys all know how verbal I am to begin with. Imagine the utterances that left my lips after these trysts. Haha! Yeah, I’m a dirty girl – and you love it! I’d ask him how it felt to blow on her pretty face? How good that tight, little hole felt. How amazing it was when her boyfriend made me squirt. You get the drift. It gets VERY intense, and seriously, some of the best sex of my life has happened after (well, hell, during as well) these experiences.

Through discussion, you may just be surprised at how much she is comfortable doing! Maybe you just want her to have her way with another woman. To watch two, beautiful bodies writhing. To hear those sounds that only women make, but amplified times two. To see long, slender legs, tangled. To observe the woman you love more than anything, go down on another woman. Enjoying herself. Being pleasured. Pleasing. Maybe you want only to voyeur this experience. To do nothing but help strip off the delicate lingerie. Maybe you want them to share YOU. God, the possibilities are endless. But you’ll never know each other’s desires unless you voice them. So go ahead and fulfill your fantasies, I promise you, it will blow your mind. You may even be surprised at how enthusiastic your partner IS about the whole thing.

I’ll be around all week this week guys. I think I’m taking Wednesday off, but other than that, you can catch me for a little while each day, except the weekend. I have a BUNCH of new gorgeous outfits, AND toys… >:D

Here’s hoping you have a great week!

Mwah!
Alex

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It was a crisp winter’s morning, when the princess awoke, stretched out her arms to welcome the day, and slowly made her way out of bed… Okay, so this isn’t THAT kind of story. Sounds like a fairy tale though, no? The golden dildo! Ha!

So, I’m cyber shopping. Just a little. Shhh. It’s okay. I’m a woman. We do this. And of course I’m perusing some of my favourite things and one of those happens to be anything made by Lelo. Well, they have a few great Cyber Monday deals on and one of the things I came across (<<Okay, I see the pun there. Haha!) was a GOLDEN dildo. Not just a little bit, but actually plated with gold. And it's on SALE for $14,000!!! What a deal! I'm kidding. That's ridiculous for a toy. Maybe the Queen mum uses this one? Okay, I've totally killed that for you all, haven't I? lol! Oh stop. You know her's would be encrusted with jewels. Ewww…encrusted. LOL! Okay, I have a terribly filthy mind.

But anyhow, yeah, there is literally almost anything out there if you look for it. I knew there were some toys made of higher end materials, and I've seen some with bits of gold, but actually fully plated? That's an odd luxury. I do think Lelo is one of my faves though. I always go back to it. Oh god. I have a bit of a problem. I like SO many. I feel like I should have a career in testing these things out and reviewing them. Sounds like HARD work, but I'm UP for the challenge. Wait, those double entendres are sort of made for men. They don't work, but still. I'm totally leaving them. lol!

Hope you guys are all had a fabulous Thanksgiving! Are you thankful for CWH? I know I am! You know, with all of the craziness in the world, it's wonderful to have a place like CamWithHer to escape to, isn't it? Time to forget all of the bad stuff, and just focus on pleasure. Having fun. Like there is nothing else but you and I. I love that part of this. Having you just let go and just be who you want to be. Do what you want to do. No one judging. Just letting your desires out and sharing that part of yourself.

And now I’m slowly getting ready for the holidays, as you could probably gander by my latest clip, Ho Ho Ohhhh! I adore Christmas, and not because of the presents, but because of what it symbolizes. It symbolizes so much more than the birth of Christ. It symbolizes coming together. It symbolizes peace. I mean, I feel a peacefulness wash over me just listening to Christmas music. Even though it’s a busy time of year, I feel more relaxed, at ease, than any other time. Surrounded by those I care about. Visiting with those that we don’t always have the time do that with other times of the year. Just gathering after gathering, and giving thanks to each other, you know? I get all warm just thinking of it. So, my tree is officially going up tomorrow. Well, my first and largest one, anyhow. It’s nine feet of pink sparkly goodness. Yes, that’s right. Oh, don’t worry, it’s a light pink. The tree is green, the ornaments are a subtle pink, and bronze, and silver. I love it!! Hey, I’m a girl. What do you expect??

Have a wonderful week, everyone! I’ll be online all day Tuesday, and Friday, for sure! Other than that, you may need to shoot me a direct message to see when I’ll be on, or to make a VIP appointment.

Mwwwah!

xoxox
Alex

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Well, happy Sunday guys! Hope everyone is having an amazing weekend.

So, today is my Mchat. As you know, it’s free for CWH members, and $5 for non-members, so why not stop in and say hi. I have some plans for you today… Naughty, delicious plans!

As you know, it’s almost Christmas time, and it’s safe to say, I’m definitely in the Christmas spirit. It really is my favourite time of year! And, I want to play with your north pole. Oh wait, I guess it’s more south, isn’t it? Your poles, dammit. I want them raring to go! Santa, are you cumming? Can I lick your candy cane? I want to sit on your lap and tell you what a naughty girl I’ve been… Ohhh, the double entendres are endless. Come on!

Today, we’re going to have some milk and cookies. I’ll supply the cookies… And the milk, well, it is going to get MESSY!!

You do NOT want to miss this! And besides the sexy fun, it’s a great time to actually get a chance to chat a little.

I can’t wait to see you all!

Ho, ho, HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Did I just call myself a ho? Ah, I suppose I’m guilty at times. lol!

I’ll be online this week, Monday afternoon, likely all day Tuesday, and I’ll try and update my calendar after that. Being xmas time, I haven’t thought too far ahead, schedule-wise, but you can always message me! You know I love hearing from you!

xoxoxox
Alex

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Christmas!!!!

Hidily ho neighbours! I don’t know what compelled me to go all Ned Flanders on you there. LOL! These urges just take over sometimes.

So, I’m going to be scarce the next two weeks around here because it’s Christmas time! You know you can always message me and I can try and set up a time that’ll work for us both. I’m going to miss you all! I might go through withdrawal!

But seriously, this is one of my favourite times of the year. Decorating, going to parties, visiting with family. My brother and his little ones from the US are coming in tonight! Eek! I’m soooo excited! I haven’t seen them in a few months, and seriously, he is such a great guy. An absolute doll. And I’m looking forward to spending time with my niece and nephew because I don’t get the opportunity to see them as much as I’d like, given the physical distance. I have a niece and nephew here that I get to spoil all the time, but that’s just not the same, you know? It feels like it’s not fair, because you just can’t forge the same connection.

I’ve finished all of my shopping (phew!), and I’ve wrapped 90% of the gifts I bought. Man, it’s almost like a job, isn’t it? And I don’t know if you’ve noticed or not, but women are super meticulous when it comes to wrapping. We wait ALL YEAR for this moment; to show off our wrapping skills, yo! lol! Ba BAM! And ever notice how we unwrap presents? I mean, yes, there are some that just tear the hell out of that wrap, but I take my time, careful not to rip the wrap. I have no idea why, really, because it’s not like it’s going to be re-used. haha! The weird things we do. Oh, that’s not the worst of it. You all know my oddities. haha! Good lord. You know too much, don’t you? You must be silenced. Ummm, I will use my feminine powers to do this! Or, uh, that Gorilla Tape I’ve been using. lmao! We do have some fun with that don’t we?

So, I’ve got some new toys – again! Haha! Curious? You know you are! Set up an appointment over the holidays and you can definitely trim my tree. Err, deck my halls. Ah, forget it, you can come see me treat you like my own, special candy cane! I have loads of new lingerie, and given that I’m not going to be on all that much, you can bet Rudolph’s ass that I’ll be raring to go! That was wildly inappropriate, wasn’t it? Maybe someone has a reindeer fetish? Or an ass fetish – in which case…. ;D

I want to take this chance to thank all of my amazing guys and gals that follow me, that spend time with me, that spoil me. I hope you know that I appreciate each and every one of you. And there are a few extra special people, that I just have to say, my life is richer for knowing you. You make me smile, laugh, think. Thank-you for that, and for being exactly who you are! <333

If I don't talk to you before Christmas, have a wonderful holiday everyone. Wishing you much peace, love, and happiness!

xoxox
Alex

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Hi everyone! Hope you’ve all been enjoying your holidays! I know I sure have. I’ve been a busy bee visiting with friends and family, what seems like ALL the time, but I’m trying to just enjoy because next week, it’s back to the grind. Literally!

Which brings me to my topic. You know, having as many followers on Twitter as I do, I get a plethora of questions. Some are of the usual variety, like, what is your favourite position (answer: depends on my mood, but doggie with someone having a hold of my hair is way up there, as it straight old missionary, face to face, being able to watch him), and some are more inquisitive. One interesting question that was recently posed to me was this: Why would I use cam girls when porn is free? Followed by: Why CamWithHer. Okay, first question. Well, porn is great and has its obvious benefits, BUT (pun intended), it can get stale. I mean, if you watch a lot of porn, you know what I mean. In moderation, it’s great. But if you watch a lot, well, it’s kind of hard to get turned on after a while because it’s a very one-way thing, you know? You watching girl on girl, you watching girl on guy, you watching girl on girl with guy, etc., etc. You get the idea. Sounds like a lot of variety, and hey, it can be, but if you watch it often, people get bored. Enter cam girls! What’s the big difference here? The fact that you can interact. You can cultivate relationships, comfort with a model, or with several models. You can make requests, whether it be outfit, certain types of role play, whatever. It’s this exchange which people crave! You get to know girls’ personalities. She might make you break out into a fit of giggles right when you’re about to cum. She might dominate you. The bottom line is, it’s fun, and some of the best times are the unexpected, unplanned times. Because it’s more like real life. Porn is porn. You can try talking to the porno, but I don’t think it’s going to respond in anything other than the overdone moans that you sometimes see. Have you ever muted porn? I totally have! lol! I know, unrelated, but it’s true. Sometimes the sounds are good, and sometimes, you just feel like saying, shhhhh!!!

Now, why CamWithHer? Well, hey, as models, we know you have a lot of choice out there. Truly. There are tons of sites. I mean, every time you go to a porn site, you get directed to a cam site. What I’ve noticed is that there are tons and tons of girls on these sites. Some good, for sure, but some baaaaaad. CamWithHer makes it their priority to hire girls that are HOT AND FUN! Really, they take this quite seriously. We have a less is more philosophy over here. Let’s face it, it’s easier to govern, right? I mean, you have an entire site of 9’s and 10’s. AND I have to say, the majority of us make it our priority to get to know you. To get to know what turns you on. And to give you that release you need. That release you crave. So, you could spend tons of time, perusing a site with countless 6’s, interspersed with the odd 10 here or there, or save yourself a bunch of time and come straight to CamWithHer. Okay, the double entendres are rampant here. Hahaha!

So, I’ve taken a few appointments here and there over the holidays, and I have to extend my apologies to those of you that have been trying to get a show with me on those days. I’ve been coming on literally just for those appointments, and so I’ve had to turn a lot of people away, and I absolutely hate doing that. But with family staying with me, my alone time is super limited. I can’t wait to see you all again on Monday! I promise I’ll make it up to you!

And don’t forget to watch my new clip that I posted the other day! It’s a little pj tease, and I’ve been getting some wonderful feedback on it from you guys. Thank-you for watching, and more importantly, for enjoying it! It makes me happy that you like it.

Wishing each and every one of you a fabulous New Year’s Eve tomorrow, and really, all the best in the upcoming year! Here’s to a sexy, and wonderful 2016!

Mwwwwah!

Alex

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Hey guys and dolls!

It’s been a few weeks since my last blog, so I thought it was high time I write something.

First of all, I hope you all are off to a wonderful start this New Year! Things are going well over here, although it has gotten COLD, which means I need YOU to warm me up! It’s nothing a little body heat can’t help!

So, we’ve talked about so many topics, haven’t we? From what it’s like to be a cam girl, to 3 ways, to just silly non-sense. Well, today I want to talk about sexual exploration, and what it means to me.

First of all, it comes with trust. The more I trust someone, the more I’m apt to explore sexually. I mean, with very few limits. You know, I didn’t necessarily even realize I was bisexual until a boyfriend coaxed me into trying it. And you know what? Sure he had motives, and got turned on by girl on girl, but mainly, it was to expand my horizons. I know it sounds corny, and you’re thinking suuuuure, he just wanted to fuck someone else. Well, I’m sure that went through his mind, but trust me, he was content to just observe, and gauge my reactions. And as it turns out, he opened a door to something very erotic, and something that was obviously in me, without me even realizing it at first.

So, why trust? Well, quite simply, not many women are going to jump at the chance to get into a 3 way or swinging if your intention is straight out having sex with another person. I mean, it’s a benefit, but shouldn’t be your number one reason for doing it, you know? Once you develop some trust, and share a mutual desire to kick up the heat, the results can be absolutely amazing!! Because the more you trust, the more you’ll want to explore. But if you have a single motivation just to get more pussy, well, that kind of kills it. If you develop trust, trust me, you’ll get your share of anything you desire! But it takes patience, and a true desire to see your partner pleased. And it goes both ways. Okay, I see the play on words there. Haha! It can, literally.

When I trust someone, and I know that they trust me, I WANT to share them. I WANT to watch them. I WANT to try new things. No reason not to, you know?

When someone goes into something like a 3way with the wrong intentions, all that happens is someone gets hurt. You have to both want to do something. You have to trust each other. And once that happens, the end result is an beautiful, erotic experience that just brings your relationship to a whoooooole other level. I’ve seen and experienced people that do it with a sole intention of fulfilling something for themselves, but they don’t give thought to their partner, and you know what, those relationships failed. It broke them apart. But the ones that go in as a partnership to explore together, have ended up stronger than some monogamous relationships I’ve observed. Not saying people have to partake in this kind of thing, but I am saying that sometimes, it can really contribute to a VERY fulfilled sex life. One single shared experience like this can add extra fuel to your bedroom for years. Recounting what happened while you’re in the throws of passion can be SO hot. Throw of passion. Ha! Who says that? I don’t know. I didn’t want to say fucking. But there, I just did, so I should have just said that from the start, no?

Well, guess what? I’ll be around ALL DAY Friday for your viewing pleasure! Swing by and play with me! I can’t wait to rev up those engines!

And I have an Mchat this weekend! I have loads of new outfits for you and some new vantage points to show you as I’ll be camming from another area. So come and hang out with me during my LAST month as Camgirl Of The Year!

And don’t forget to vote! You can vote for as many models as you like, once a day, every day until the end of January! Your vote counts, guys! Just click on your model(s) of choice, and click the little pink VOTE bubble and voila! You’ve helped your favourite cam girl get recognized for her hard work. Yeah, that was intentional! Haha! HARD! ;D

Have a great weekend all, and hope to see you Friday AND Sunday!

Mwah!
Alex

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Have you ever stopped to think of what one of the most intimate things you can do with another person is? To me, kissing is almost more a connection thing than even sex. I mean, sex can be just sex. Hot, lusting, animalistic sex. Super great, but you don’t always have to have a connection. Yet I find if I want to kiss someone, I usually have a stronger connection with them.

As a matter of fact, you all know that I’ve done my share of partner sharing, and being shared, and kissing has always topped the no-no list of any of my significant others. Is that weird? Initially, it made me wonder. Like, why doesn’t he want someone kissing me? They can lick me anywhere on my body. They can fuck me. But no kissing? But you know, the more thought I gave it, the more I came to understand why. I love kissing. I love being kissed, and more importantly, I love doing it, and I guess it shows. It’s such an intimate exchange.

And I do think there is a bit of an art to it. Anyone can just be aggressive and put their tongue down your throat. But have you ever been with someone that was REALLY good at it? I love the feel of kissing. Pressing my lips against yours. Running them over yours, feeling the shape of them. Revelling in the sensation I get when they part, when our tongues gently tangle. Ever notice how things amplify when you kiss? How you almost want to consume that individual? How primal you start to get. Maybe my hand clutches the back of your head, tilting it back, granting me greater access. Maybe I gently tug on your bottom lip with my teeth, grinning mischievously. Mmm, yes. I have plans. And my kiss is definitely making you aware of this. The warmth of our mouths together. Our bodies responding, craving more. I lick your top lip with my tongue. Tracing it. Feeling that softness. Tasting you. Ugh, okay, I’ve kind of made myself a little wet just thinking of a perfect kiss.

And what about kissing someone’s neck? Licking it. Running my lips over it softly. Parting my lips and breathing on it. My hands free to explore.

And how about blindfolding a partner? Not letting them know where your mouth is going? Have you ever had a night where you make the rule, no penetration? Mouths only? That can be amazing. Fasten a silk tie around her head, obscuring her sight. Trust me, it only heightens the sensations. And it’s just as amazing for women to do to men. Imagine it, you’re naked, exposed. You can feel, you can hear, but you can’t see. You feel my bare breasts, nipples erect as ever, brush against your bare chest. You feel my warm breath, intentionally, against you, before my lips touch you. You hear my moan in your ear, as I grab hold of your hair, and you feel my nakedness straddle one of your thighs. Rubbing against you. Dragging my breasts over your face. Your mouth parting, mmm, such a sexy image. Seeing you vulnerable, exposed, wanting. I do relish those types of moments. I guess that’s the slightly dominant side of me. Wanting to have you experience things. In the same vein, I do enjoy having it done to me – with the right person. It’s quite something to be able to let go with someone this way, don’t you think? Letting go, and just giving in to pleasure. To all of the sensations.

So yeah, given all of this, and how much I adored kissing this one man in particular, I could definitely get why he put a kibosh on kissing.

Hmm, it really is a bit of an art form isn’t it? And everyone’s style is so different. That’s an art class I could really get into… >:D

So, CGOTY is officially underway! I hope that everyone is taking advantage of the fact that they can not only vote for more than ONE model (finally!), but that they can vote EVERY DAY! So, help out your favourite model(s), whether it be me, or someone else, and vote! Everyone works so hard to bring you the hottest shows, and to make you feel amazing. Show us some love! <333

What a great week we've had! Sometimes, I almost don't want the week to end! This is one of those. And tomorrow will be no different! Come and play ALL DAY Friday with yours truly. Start your weekend off right! I can't wait to see you!

Have a fabulous weekend, and don't forget to work on that art!

Kiss! xx

Alex

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My title comes from the little outfit I wore today. Latex. Literally from head to toe. Encased. In a condom. Haha! You KNEW I was going to make that joke didn’t you? But seriously. I’ve had ‘wet look’, leather, pleather outfits, but never actual latex and let me tell you, I now know why mistresses are such bitches. We lead you to believe that it’s because we want to be pleased, but really, we’re just tremendously uncomfortable. Ever try and stretch a thick balloon? Okay, now try to put your arm in that. ENOUGH SAID! Haha! I kept joking like this yesterday, in between being a bratty little thing. Tis why you come back to me. The entertainment factor. It extends FAR beyond the shows. But seriously, it looks sexy as hell, but Jesus, it was like I was birthing myself when I tried to get out of it. It was like my own personal challenge. And hearing the sounds I make when I put it on. Haha! Ever see the movie Alien? Yep, that was me. I must say, the second time wasn’t nearly as, err, full of bloopers.

I love being the girl next door, which is truly who I am. But it sure can be fun to let out THIS side of me now and again. To mesmerize you with these innocent eyes, yet blow your mind with my filthy mind.

Latex lends itself to domination, doesn’t it? Now, will YOU be dominated, or are you going to do the dominating? It takes a very strong man to be able to control this girl. Think you can handle it? Once you get me under you (pun intended), I turn into a little kitten. Or is that tiger? Meooooow! You’ll have to cum find out, now won’t you? I can feel you out pretty quickly. Get to know your preferences, your desires. Your inner most thoughts. Thoughts you wouldn’t share with your spouse or girlfriend. But you’ll share with me, won’t you? Mmm, good boy. You know you get rewarded for being so good, don’t you? Or perhaps you’ll reap the rewards for being BAD! I can be a little bad too. Come see for yourself!

Remember guys! There’s only a few more days left to vote for CGOTY! You can vote for MULTIPLE models, and every day! How awesome is that?

I’ll be online all day tomorrow (Friday)! Swing by and say hi!

Have a great weekend, everyone!

xoxox
Alex

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Are you hearing Fraulein Maria singing in your head yet? No? Okay, just me. I guess I was a bit of a Sound Of Music freak when I was little, so it’s kind of fitting.

Anyhow, I thought I’d list a few of my very favourite things to maybe help you out if you need ideas for your significant other seeing as Valentine’s Day is right around the corner! Now, granted, not all women are the same, but if she’s a girly girl like me, well then, maybe this list will give you some ideas.

-Gift cards – While these are great for your favourite cam girls, in real life, we don’t like getting them as a stand alone gift. Make sure you get at least something a little personal to accompany these. To show you’ve put some thought into your gift!

-Lululemon gear – God yes. This is a win-win for BOTH of you! It’s a well known fact that women amp up their workouts when they get new gear, so not only is she going to get revved up for the gym, but umm, have you seen how Lulu makes bums look? Yeah, there are no losers in this gift idea. If you don’t know her size, check through her drawers and look at her pants. Wait, stop rifling through her underwear! I said her workout gear, naughty boy! Get back to task. There you go. Easy, right? If you’ve already gotten her something, you can order her a gift card from here to accompany it. Trust me, she’ll LOVE it! They sell everything from yoga pants, to super functional tanks, to cute casual stuff.

-Lingerie – This is a go-to for romantic holidays, isn’t it? And with good reason! We all LOVE lingerie! Pretty little things that make us feel beautiful. Victoria’s Secret, and Agent Provocateur are my top picks here. A sexy, sheer nightie. Maybe a delicate bra and panty set. This is YOUR chance to tell her, hey, I think you are going to look incredibly sexy in this! Again, go through her lingerie drawers to find out her size, if you don’t already know. Nothing worse than getting something that doesn’t fit! See, NOW you have permission to peruse those pretty little things in that drawer. Ah, I know you better… You were going there anyway, weren’t you?

-L’Occitane products – I love these. My favourite line is the Verbena line. It smells sort of lemony and fresh. You can’t go wrong with a gift basket from here, and maybe some lingerie to go with it. If she isn’t a lingerie girl, how about pjs? VS has some super adorable jammies! Whether she’s a fan of nighties, and silk cami sets, or flannel, they have it all, and it can still be sexy. The fact that YOU chose it will make her smile!

-Sephora – Oooooh! You know Toys R Us? Well, this is like OUR Toys R Us when we’re all grown up! Haha! Except it’s filled with lipgloss, and sparkly shadows, and fragrances, and moisturizer, and hair products. So, yeah, you’re going to hate it in here, but the staff is amazing, and the selection is great, so you’re guaranteed to get something awesome!

Some of my fave things to get here are:
–Eyeshadows by Urban Decay and Kat Von D. I don’t even WEAR a lot of make-up, yet I still love shopping for it!
–Nars Lip Glosses. These are my favourite lip glosses. I LOVE lip gloss! haha! My colour of choice, if I had to chose one, would be Turkish Delight. It’s a super light, peachy pink that looks amazing on its own, but also can tone down a bright red, and really highlight a pretty pink. That’s my go to!
–Dior Mascaras. I’m not a fan of fake lashes and how they look. I can always pick them out, and they always appear artificial to me, so I recommend this mascara. It’s my HG of mascara. Goes on beautifully, and amplifies lashes, without looking artificial. I like the Iconic line. Definitely an easy choice!
–I have two favourite fragrances, and I alternate between the two. One is Flowerbomb by Viktor and Rolf, and the other is Bobbi Brown’s Beach. Beach is pretty self explanatory. It’s a light, coconut-infused scent that is reminiscent of those long days you’d spend sun tanning. It just makes me feel warm and tingly because you can’t help but think of those fun beach days when you wear it. The other is a super pretty. floral scent. But not one of those nauseating floral scents you may have come across. Just pretty, and feminine, without being overpowering. Scents ARE highly personal, but these are often listed in magazine’s top sellers because they are so appealing to everyone.
–Blush – My pick would be by either Nars, or Hourglass. I’ve been loving the latter as of late. And while you’re at it, don’t forget to maybe slip in a new blush brush for her. We love nice brushes! That could be an idea on it’s own – a brush set! A high quality one, that is.
–Fresh skin care products. Oooooh, I love this line. Simple, non-irritating, and the entire line smells AMAZING. My skin thanks me every day for using Fresh! lol! Seriously, they have little gift sets for her to try, if she’s never used it before. Trust me, it doesn’t disappoint. I don’t use moisturizer, ever, but I do use a serum by Fresh. Really, for me, it has the perfect consistency, and I prefer it to the heavy creams and concoctions out there. My fave is the Black Tea Serum. I give this one high praise. I never break out, which is partially due to not wearing a lot of make-up, and partially attributed to the clean ingredients in this line. Either way, I haven’t looked back since I started using the soy cleanser and the black tea serum. My top two picks. And their sugar lip balms are amazing!!

– Sex Toys! Oh yeahhhhh! Now, we’re talking! Valentine’s Day is about romance, no? Well, this isn’t so much highlighting romance as sex, but still, sort of related? Or they should be! Sex toys are definitely some of OUR favourite gifts. lol! I’m sure non cam girls would appreciate them too? Well, sexually free ones. And hell, again, a total win-win because YOU get to Christen them with her. Maybe a pretty glass dildo. I love those because of the ability to make them warm OR cold. The sensations are awesome! And hands down my ultimate favourite toy… the smaller Lelo. Mmm. Yep. I LOOOOOVE this one. I have SO many vibes and they are all great, but this one is AHHHHHHMAZING. Nothing makes me O like this. Plus it’s pretty, which totally earns points with me. So maybe get her some lingerie, and a sexy toy – go with a theme!

Shoes – God, I love shoes. And, I mean all sorts of shoes. Cute high tops to run around with in the spring. Pretty heels to accentuate those long legs while strutting down the Vegas strip. You can’t go wrong with shoes. Now, it’s a difficult thing to buy, granted, so this is one time you would HAVE to buy a gift or e-card for her. Giuseppe Zanotti is one of my fave brands to drool over. If you like a high degree of sex appeal, check this designer out. I’ve bought a few pairs through Ruelala.com. It’s sort of like a high end, designer Overstock. I hate to even mention those in the same sentence bc one is amazing, and the other, I wouldn’t even look at, but you know what I mean. Alice and Olivia sometimes have some cute ones.

JCrew – One of my favourite stores. Preppy, cute, trendy. Great shoes. Amazing coats and outerwear. Super easy, one stop shopping. And very mid-priced, so it won’t totally kill your budget, but it WILL make her smile… Well, if she’s like me!

BCBG – For sexy dresses. Yes. Enough said!

Marciano – Ditto. Love this store. Hate the lower end version, Guess. But Marciano is always on point.

– Jewellery – Yes, we ARE women after all! We love pretty things, and the sentiment behind a simple heart pendant, or a lovely ring that you put thought into goes a long way with us. It shows us you want something that stands the test of time. Great choice if it’s within your budget

– A meal prepared by YOU! It doesn’t have to be gourmet, but wow, it’s so nice to be pampered! Add a little back or foot rub and we can turn to putty in your hands. The bottom line is the THOUGHT you are putting into these things. Plus, it’s nice to do something for someone that means a lot to you, right?

Umm, okay, this one is a little… Oh forget it, I’ll just say it. Oral! Go down on her. The gift that keeeeeeeeps on giving! Thank GOD you guys like doing this so much. Nothing gets us off like oral and some finger action. Even those toys! Seriously, how can you compete with a nimble tongue? The answer? A little and big Lelo! Okay, I’ll stop. You can’t. A tongue and a finger inserted inside is unbelievably shiver-inducing. In the best of ways. And I’d dare to bet she’ll repay the favour!

Okay, so I think we’ve got a base for you to work with! You have a few days left! Now get shopping!!!

**Disclaimer: These are just my personal ideas and your woman may hate you and my stupid ideas, or she may give you the most amazing blow job of your life in thanks. I cannot be held responsible for said reaction, and this disclaimer hereby releases me from any or all responses that may occur as a result of said gifting. Unless it’s good. Then I totally take credit!

AND…I know some are going to say, where’s the chocolate??? Well, these are my favourite things, and honestly, I can take or leave sweets. I know – gasp! A Belgian that doesn’t eat chocolate?? Ah, I eat it occasionally, but I wouldn’t want to get it for a gift. lol! It isn’t on my “favourite things list”. Let’s just leave it at that.

I want to say a BIG thank-you, to my Davey for spoiling me rotten! I mean, I feel like I should just leave a copy and paste to insert into each blog because you always make me feel so special. And just when I think you couldn’t be any sweeter or kinder, you go and blow me away – again. Thank-you, Boo! <3333

Happy Valentine's guys! (and girls!) Hope you all have a lovely weekend! I'll be around this afternoon, and ALL day Friday. So come say hi!

Mwah!

Alex

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I know, this is a funny statement, coming from a cam girl, right? But I truly believe this! Often, I can’t help but to reflect of how much impact someone has had on me with a simple statement. By lending their ear. With a smile. With a poem. Through sharing a sketch they made. Sharing a vulnerable side. In a day and age where everything comes with a cost, sometimes, the most wonderful things have no cost at all, you know?

For instance, there is a woman at my gym and she radiates goodness. And you can’t help but bring that with you throughout the day. She literally will stop you to look you in the eye and tell you how beautiful you are. How your smile makes her day. Well you know what? She makes MY day. And it may sound cheesy, but she leaves me smiling.

Or how about the guys that send beautiful notes after a show? I hope you all know how much I appreciate these! My gosh! I enjoy myself so much, I feel I should be thanking YOU! So, it’s absolutely lovely, and makes me all tingly inside when you do this. To feel so appreciated for doing something that I enjoy. For spending time with guys I adore! It means so very much to me.

So, when someone says they’re surprised that I take the time to talk to them in free chat, or that I respond to their messages, I’m always shocked myself, because this is how the world should be. We should want to interact with one another. To hear other people’s perspectives. To get to know each other a little. To have a good conversation. I mean, conversation is free, right? And yes, often these conversations will lead to shows because guess what, men like a woman who can speak her mind, and who can listen. I’ve learned this. And it’s turned out to be one of the number one turn ons I’ve encountered. And that goes both ways! Because the best conversationalists are most usually very intelligent, and we all know how I feel about intelligent men. They’re often the most witty, and I’m finding the most intuitive men. I just want you to know that I appreciate YOU! Thank-you for always making my days, guys. Just getting to know you at such a personal level is truly a gift in my eyes. The best kind of gift!

I’ll be online today, and guess what? I’m taking over CamWithHer’s Snapchat this Monday! So if you aren’t following them, do it! I don’t Snap outside of that, so it’s the only way to catch me on this platform! I’ll also be doing a fun little Periscope Monday morning that you will NOT want to miss. So follow CamWithHer on Periscope as well!

Have an awesome weekend all!

xxx Mwwwwah!
Alex

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Oh man. So much. So, SO much. Any of you who have gotten to know me know that my mind is often going this way or that. And often, all at the same time! Haha! Yes, often prurient, well, almost always to some degree. But also, it drifts to thoughts of tolerance. To thoughts of peace. To thoughts of RELIGION???

Nahhh, not really. Well sort of. See, for me, people have always said, NEVER talk religion or politics. And my response to this is WHY NOT? Have we really turned into such a sensitive, intolerant society that we can no longer stand to hear other people’s viewpoints? My God (uh oh, sin number one!). But seriously. I ENJOY hearing other people’s opinions. No, I don’t always agree with it, but it’s interesting nevertheless. Sometimes it’s insightful into their moral fabric. And yes, sure. Sometimes it can be frustrating. But I enjoy understanding, and I never hold your beliefs against you as a person. Let’s face it. So many things mould us as human beings, right?

So, religion. Here it is! I was born Catholic. Baptized. Had communion. Was confirmed. Went to church each and every weekend. I enjoyed the sense of community that the Church brought, but I was dissatisfied with the premise of Church. With having to be in a brick and mortar building to have faith. I don’t think that’s so. I think you can worship, give praise, whatever, right in your own home, with just as much meaning. Now, as I got older, I questioned a lot of things. Blind faith is a very difficult thing for me to have. Especially as I started studying a few religion courses in university. As well as the classics. The two completely conflicted the other. One said to have blind faith in a higher power. In all of the stories regaled in the Bible. While the other examined why it was penned in the first place. So there has to be a happy medium. For me, it was acknowledging that religion means so many things to so many people. The bottom line, for the most part, is a positive one. And it’s the one I echo to my godchildren (yes, I’m a godmother..and yes, I may do the godfather voice now and again with them – the poor buggers). So what is the message? The message is that I think the Bible, in essence, speaks of a man who did good things. All true. It speaks of tolerance. It speaks of intolerance. To me, it’s like the ultimate guidebook on being good. On doing good. Do I believe all of the Bible? Nope. You already knew that, didn’t you? Absolutely not. I don’t think Mary was inseminated by the Lord. I don’t think Moses split the Red Sea. I don’t think Jesus came back to life – sorry to all of you believers out there! What I do believe is that he did exist. And he was a great model of how we should be. And for me, that’s enough. I learned some tolerance through religion, but mainly through my parents. I learned to pray through religion, but I learned if I worked hard, I had more of a chance of things going my way. I learned that rather having to go once a week to give thanks, I could do this in the comfort of my very own house, without being on my knees (insert dirty joke here). And I could be thankful each and everyday. It’s a mindset, you see. Not something that the Bible needs to tell me. But what I CAN see with religion, whether parts are embellished or not, is that either way, it gives people something to strive for. It holds them accountable, or at least makes them maybe think twice about their actions. So to me, this is a good thing.

Yes, there are people that are fanatical, as with anything. People that don’t want to hear other people’s perspective. But maybe this gives you just a little insight into what goes through MY head at times. All I can say, is I still hope for a world with peace. I hope for people being able to get along. I hope that people can speak their minds without feeling like they’re going to be persecuted for their viewpoints. I think life is about understanding. Understanding that not everyone has the same belief. Being willing to acknowledge that just because they don’t think like we do that this doesn’t necessarily translate to them as being unworthy of our time. It doesn’t mean we can’t be friends. And it certainly doesn’t mean that I’ll attack you. This is where the world has gone wrong, to an extent. Agree with me, or else. Well, fuck that. It’s like the world has become a giant playground full of bullies. I could start into politics at this point, BUT I’ll save that for next time. Ha!

I hope you are all having a fabulous weekend! I know spring has sprung over on this side of the continent, so I’m hoping YOU can get sprung on Tuesday! I’ll be online ALL DAY Tuesday this week. I think the same for Wednesday and Thursday, then off on Friday. So if you realllllllly want to be guaranteed a show, shoot me a message to book one. I know sometimes you guys get disappointed when I’m booked up, and this is an easy peasy solution. Given the hours this week though, I’m sure I can squeeze you in. Haha! Squeeze. Too easy! >:D

I wanted to send out a quick thank-you to David40 and to DaveC for spoiling me! David, I’ll be getting those sexy little things in a few weeks, and Dave, well, you’ve SEEN my treats! Thank-you SOOO much!! You guys are the best! xxxxx

See you Tuesday, loves!

xx
Alex

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Well hey there CWH lovers!

Hope you’re all having a fabulous week.

So, to the title. I mean this in BOTH senses. Haha! Because really, I hold a great reverence for men that speak well. And also that can use their tongues!

So, let’s talk about this, shall we? First of all, I get all tingly when I come across intelligent men. Why? Haha… Oh, many reasons. But you know I have a dirty mind, so I think of unravelling that brilliance. That person that can keep such composure. To leave them speechless while they try to regain a sense of self control, jaw agape. Coax out of them things they never thought they’d say… Mmmm. I do love that. And in the same vein, it’s SO hot when a man can show me that side of HIM. When I don’t necessarily expect it. And all of a sudden, this well put together man is just a vocal beast in bed. I don’t know if there is more of a turn on out there than one that can articulate what he really wants to do to us and how he intends on doing it. Women tend to be very much up in the mind for sex (well, and visual too, needless to say) so having you arouse us through words works VERY well. And sometimes, when these intelligent men just let out that inner animal that just craves sex, god, it’s incredibly erotic. So many guys get so hung up on the fact that physically they don’t feel like they’re what we want. But it extends so far past that for women. And I mean that. Yeah, you want some attraction. But why do you think supermodels end up with some of these musicians? These are laws of attraction that can’t always be explained. It far surpasses the physical for women. A great sense of humour. An intelligent man. A creative man that can express himself. These are all things I’ve heard women say they desire. And I’m definitely in that camp. Some of the greatest connections I’ve had have been with men that real connections develop with. Not just physically. But mentally, and emotionally. So much stronger than the one lustful night with the hottie that you hooked up with, you know? Not that that’s a bad thing either. But sometimes, it doesn’t extend past that.

And onto the other meaning of this blog. Hehe! You were waiting for this part, weren’t you? Naughty boys (and girls!). I have NEVER met a man that didn’t exceed my expectations for cunnilingus. It’s true! First of all, I’m floored at the enthusiasm that men display with this. Like, Jesus! How lucky are we, girls? I’ve had guys that want nothing more than to just go down and me and please me. Umm, I won’t say no! Haha! I like pleasing too, but if you insist… Actually, I almost feel badly sometimes. Well, once I’m done feeling super fucking fantastic. lol. But you know what I mean. And guys, you are amazing at this! I’ve been with both women and men and men have the leg up on this. Literally sometimes, if you like that position. Okay, now I’m giggling. Focus, Alex, focus. Where was I? Right. Men are soooo good with their tongues AND they seem to know exactly what to do. I must admit, I don’t pay attention to how it’s done, so when it comes time for me to go down on a woman, I have no idea what I’m doing. I get the job done, haha, but I think in my head, god, what did he do last time, and all I can think of is fuck, that felt good. You’d think women would be the best, right? Being that we own the equipment. But I think it’s true that we just get so into the feeling, that we almost lose conscious awareness of exactly what is going on. I had one female partner who was freaking amazing, but the rest were better with the strap on than with their tongues. The funny thing with women is that every woman is so different, and every time is so different, so you really have to gauge the situation, right? For me, it’s pretty easy to know I’m getting close. The way my hand clutches a fistful of hair and pushes you harder into me, knowing I want you to apply more pressure. The way my thighs tense up around your face, while my back arches. The fact that I’m biting my lip and moaning, panting almost. The queues are pretty easy to read. Some like it soft, some NEED a finger or fingers inserted along with it. And some like it rougher. I’m in the lighter, softer variety for the most part. Which is kind of funny, because I can be aggressive when it comes to sex itself. Plus I’m a big proponent of vibes which aren’t known to be light, right? The thing with that, is my clit is so sensitive, I can never really put a vibe right on it. It’s usually above it, so I guess it’s gentler? haha! I have no idea, and really I’ve completely lost my train of thought. Still reading? Damn, I’d better make this good then. So, my point is that we love you guys. We love you a LOT. And the fact that you are so determined and want to go down on us, umm, you are fucking awesome.

So, I’ll be scarce next week. If you need a fix, just send me a message and I’ll try my best to pop on to play! I’ll be online all day tomorrow (Thursday). You’ll notice me online for a little while Friday, but I’m not taking any additional shows other than the few that pre-booked this day last week. So don’t be hurt, it’s just that I only have a little bit of time that day! But tomorrow, I’m all yours! >:D

Have a great remainder of your week, sexies! And please, continue those with your linguistic skills…

xoxox
Alex

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Hey guys!

I hope you all are having a fantastic week! Man, it’s been a great one. Like REALLY fun. Maybe it’s because spring is finally here, but I just feel so… happy! The snow has disappeared, the birds are chirping. It’s like everything is just alive, you know?

Did you get a chance to check out CamWithHer’s Snapchat lately? I did a takeover yesterday and it was SO fun! I don’t do Snapchat myself, so it’s the only way you’ll catch me. And there are loads of other hotties taking over as well, so what have you got to lose? Follow them now!

So, guess what? I have an Mchat this Sunday at 4pm ET! Yes, it’s that time again. And I have SO many outfits planned for you guys. Hope we have enough time to get to them all. I’ll be doing a panty giveaway to the winner of the game I’ve got planned. That’s right! Panties! haha! I bought a pretty little white lace panty from Victoria’s Secret that I’ll be wearing with a school girl outfit, and I’ll mail it out to the winner along with a note from yours truly. I also have a gorgeous satin cheeky panty that I’ll send out to the highest tipper at the chat. We are going to have SO much fun!! And remember, it’s free for members, and only $5 for non-members to spend a whole hour with me! It’ll be riveting. Okay, maybe not, but it will be topless. And a lil’ naughty… Oh heck, it’ll be riveting! Promise!

I have SO much to talk about, but it’s Friday morning and I need to get my workout done before getting online, so it’ll have to wait until the weekend when I have more time to sit and write. But one thing at the top of my list… Mississippi! Ugh. Enough said, right? The world takes a step forward, and then two back, it would seem. Anyhow, that is a WHOLE other discussion. And trust me, we WILL discuss it. And so much more!

Have a great weekend and hope to see you Sunday!

Mwwwah!

Alex

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And the winner of BOTH panties from my Mchat is none other than the wonderful Jimbowtie! Incredibly enough, he was able to figure out what in the world I was drawing during our Pictionary game. Truthfully, I could hardly tell what I had drawn. Haha! You guys all impressed me so much with your visual skills. Jimbowtie ALSO won the highest tipper contest and so I’ll be sending his pretty, little parcel next week! Congrats love! Mwah!

If you aren’t following our camsite, CamWithHer on Snapchat yet, do ittttt! Here are a few pics from my takeovers this week! Enjoy!

I have a few Questions Of The Week to get through from my Twitter followers, so here goes…

1/ Have you ever jerked off or blown someone in public?
Yes and yes. Both happened on a plane, actually. The blow job, in a dark cabin. It wasn’t as difficult as it sounds, actually. When it’s dark enough, you can get away with a lot! The jerk off was done in broad daylight, with the help of a blanket and him sitting in a window seat. The only thing I will say, is make sure you have tissues with you for the inevitable outcome…. Umm, outcum? Whatever. It was hot! And a little risky. So even more hot.

2/ I’ve seen you on the CWH Snapchat. Do you have your own?
No. I don’t do Snap on my own because honestly, I don’t have enough time with keeping up with my other social media. So the only place you can catch me is on CamWithHer’s Snapchat. I make special appearances here and there, so be sure to follow them. Plus there are TONS of beauties on there. You don’t want to miss out.

3/ Would you ever consider going on a ‘date’ for money? (from Instagram)
No, I don’t think so. Escorting isn’t my thing. If I’m going to have sex, I have it because I want to have sex with someone. Not for the money. I don’t get offended, being asked, as it happens all the time, and I do know there are other sites whereby girls do this sort of thing, but it’s not anything I’d entertain, tbh.

4/ Does size matter? What’s the perfect size of cock?
Umm, yes and no. I mean, to a degree, it does. But that said, women like a range of sizes. I think girth honestly plays more into our pleasure than length. If I had to name a size, I’d probably say around 7 inches, and nice and thick. Just be patient, if you’re really wide.

5/ Do you have a favourite porn star?
Hmm, yeah, for sure! I don’t watch it all that often, lately, tbh. But if I had to pick one, it would be Jessica Jaymes. This may sound weird, but it’s WAY hotter when it’s less theatrical, and you can tell they’re genuinely enjoying themselves.

6/ Do you do custom vids?
No, sorry. I’ve done one or two for a few regs, but that’s it. I like to stay pretty low key. I do have tons of clips up in our clip section, though!

Okay, so that about covers it! I hope you are all having a beautiful week! It’s Friday! Woo hoo! I shall be online this afternoon for your viewing pleasure! And next week, Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, then I’m off to the ol’ US of A for a long weekend of debauchery! So catch me while you can!

Kisssss!

Alex

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